Colin & Griffin's Gang!
Join our team and help us support Nationwide Children's Hospital! We are running together in memory of Colin & Griffin (see story below). Our team goal is $10,000!!!! Thank you to my teammates for your camaraderie! Below is our story from our 2017 page. We appreciate your support and donations to benefit Nationwide Children's Hospital!
Colin & Griffin. Colin & Griffin.
Colin & Griffin. Colin & Griffin.
Three months later and I still say those names over and over in my head on an hourly basis. Our boys… Colin & Griffin. We had tried for seven months to conceive a second child. In January 2017, that second pink line finally appeared. On February 24th, we had our first ultrasound and our OB asked us how we felt about going from one child to three… TWINS! Other than the day our first son Ben was born, I have never felt such elation in my heart.
We were to meet our boys this September, though in my mind, I was hoping to carry them at least until August. Our first son was born at 36 weeks and, in all probability, the twins would be premature too. Like expecting parents do, we made plans (how to help Ben adjust, how to arrange the twins nursery, transitioning big brother to a big boy bed, nursing twins, which stroller for twins and a toddler, how to stay connected to your partner while raising three kids). We were thrilled and there was so much joy and heartfelt excitement for our growing family of five.
Then came the storm. I awoke in the middle of the night with contractions about six minutes apart. I was only 23 weeks along. The ambulance raced us to the hospital and when the triage nurse said “six centimeters, bulging bag” I knew we weren’t going to be bringing Colin & Griffin home in the way we had hoped. In that moment, I knew Ben would only know of his twin brothers through stories and pictures. The boys were born at 0231 and 0238 on Memorial Day, May 29th, 2017. We held them skin to skin on my chest, feeling them wiggle their warm, small bodies together. Colin’s cry is a permanent echo in my mind. Griffin looked just like Ben, down to the nose, brow and chin. These are the memories of our children.
As the time ticks by and our official due date creeps closer and closer, I wonder how things would be if I could have protected them a little while longer. I realize a NICU stay at Nationwide Children’s Hospital would have been a possible gift, relatively speaking, had they been a few weeks further along. I wish they could have had that chance. I also realize that the possibility of having another premature birth without intervention is high, as the most reliable predictor of preterm birth is previous preterm births – meaning any future children of ours may have a stay at Nationwide Children’s Hospital.
Which brings us to now. In times of challenge and struggle, I fall on some dependable, consistent coping mechanisms – one of them being running. I usually say it’s cheaper than therapy and antidepressants, however I’m currently utilizing both of those as well ;) Since 2003, I’ve completed three full marathons and nine half marathons (how many mid-life crises are we alotted again?). I feel compelled to do more than just run the half marathon this year. I want to raise money for Nationwide Childrens Hospital to go towards the wonderful services they provide for so many children and families – the care I wish they could have provided to our Colin & Griffin.
My goal is $10,000... TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS! I’m anxious as I type that – It’s a lot of money! But I believe in many things: the HOPE that is given to so many by Nationwide Childrens Hospital, the PROGRESS in research that will eventually find ways to prevent preterm births, the KNOWLEDGE that Colin & Griffin know how much we love them, and the COMMUNITY of friends and family that continue to shower us with love, grace and patience. Reaching $5000 memorializes Colin & Griffin's names on a wagon, NCH's preferred mode of patient transportation since the 1960s. (http://700childrens.nationwidechildrens.org/the-story-behind-our-wagons/)
Please donate and help me reach my goal of $10,000. Here are some examples of how the monies can be utilized:
-$30 buys 1 pack of diapers for premature babies; these tiniest of patients use more than 350,000 diapers each year.
-$100 covers music therapy; music therapy is a natural healer and mood booster for patients of any diagnosis.
-$1000 will support five scholarships to summer camp in a medically-safe environment so they can do what they do best – be kids!
While there's still an abundance of moments that bring us to our knees, we are learning to carry our grief with more grace and courage as each day passes. Thank you for taking the time to read our story and I hope you are able to donate in memory of our Colin & Griffin.
All our love,
Grace Chapman & Family
P.S. Your donation is tax deductible! Nationwide Children’s Hospital Foundation’s Tax ID is 31-3016370